Posts tagged with 'Confidence'

 

How to be more sexy and courageous with women? In a word, confidence…

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The first thing you need to understand, is that courage is sexy. So it’s going to take courage to be more confident, and to be confident at anything requires skill, competence.

How do you get competence?
You practice, and how do you practice? You start. How do you start? You have the courage.

So you don’t go out and talk to the hottest chick in the bar. First of all, you’re probably not going to meet her there anyway, you’re probably going to meet her at a coffee shop, so just disregard the bar thing. But start with something that’s manageable, a little bit out of your comfort zone. If you are super shy right now and you have a difficult time making eye contact, then start practicing making eye contact with people in general. Not hot girls, just normal people.

Start by saying hi and smiling. Whatever it is that is a little bit beyond your comfort zone, start there, get really good at it and then move
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Many people think dating sucks. Here is what to do to make dating fun…

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Dating Sucks… Now why would they feel this way? Well, because they want to create something real. Chances are if you’re reading this article, you want to create something real when it comes to dating. You want to find someone who values you. Find someone who invests in you. Who you can invest in. Someone who you can build something enduring with, but instead here’s what you get. Casual dating, meaningless hookups, and mixed, confusing-ass signals. You do not need to be a psychic to know that an enormous number of people right now feel this…

Now this leaves people very frustrated and it leaves them wondering whether what they’re looking for is actually out there.

We recently ran an exclusive closed door event for clients, that was invite only, and I made them one promise.

I am going to explain all day about how to create a real and lasting relationship, and avoid the casual dating, hookup culture we feel like we&#821
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10 Ways To Stop Self-Sabotaging Your Dates (And Get A Great Guy)

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Want to find a man who treats you right? Well, start letting him do more of the work.

All too often, I see friends continually devastated by their dating experiences. It is heartbreaking to see them make the same mistakes over and over again. I see women who continually find men who, for whatever reason, never step up to treat them the way they deserve.

I realized that it had very little to do with the men, but more to do with how the women approached dating. They were too emotionally entrenched in the experience and could not see how they were creating some of the dynamics.

I myself was a victim of this until I recognized my part in this process and then I began dating and eventually married a man who treats me the way I deserve. I have identified the following rules to change the approach:

1. Get off the pity train.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Let go of the self defeating thoughts holding you back.
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Find out What to do if she’s not interested

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Most of us know how to tell if a girl is interested. We know the signs of flirting: the head tilting, the eye contact, the infamous hair flip.

You’ve studied how to flirt with women, how to make women approach you, and even how to get phone numbers. So you’re out making use of your newfound knowledge. You’re chatting up a girl at the club, in the mall, or even on the elevator.
You’re walking with confidence, dressing better—heck, even smelling better. You are a man on a mission and won’t take no for an answer!

But … what do you do when the girl you’re into isn’t interested?

Let’s say you’re practicing all the techniques, and you even saw her giving you the eye from across the room. So you catch her gaze and smile, holding the glance for a few seconds then breaking away.

Later, you repeat these steps. And she’s still looking at you. You want to approach her, but she&#821
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How to Kiss a Girl and Never Get Rejected.

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You’re about to learn, hands down, the best way to successfully get a girl to kiss you without fear of rejection. In the advanced version of this technique, you can even get the girl you’re talking to to lean in to kiss you!

So if you’ve ever been afraid of getting rejected going for a kiss OR you’ve gotten “the cheek” you know why having a rock-solid technique to moving in for the kiss is 100% crucial.

Going in for the kiss is probably the worst place to face rejection in an interaction with a girl because:

You’ve invested a lot of TIME by this point in the interaction, and there simply isn’t enough time in your night to get this far and then hit a brick wall and have to move on.
Screwing up this part of the interaction can ruin all chances of moving on from here to seduction.
Most guys don’t have the chance to learn how to perfect going for a kiss because it hap
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How to Become More Confident Around Women In 3 Simple Steps

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Let’s talk about confidence.

Girls always say that they love confidence in guys.

As I was growing up, it always felt like girls would always go for the guys who were more confident and outgoing. Whenever I had a crush on a girl, most of the time I would be too scared to ask her out. My mind would tell me things like “she probably already has a boyfriend,” and if I did try to talk to her then I would become super awkward and would barely even be able to say anything.

This makes it especially difficult because as men, we’re the ones who are expected to be the initiators when it comes to dating. It’s up to us to take the first step and ask her out, to go for the first kiss, to ask her to be exclusive, to say the first “I love you”, and so on. And this can mean having to step way, way out of your comfort zone.

How are we supposed to be confident when it comes to dating, then?

I’m not go
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“So Does this mean she likes me?” – The Kiss of Death with Women

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You’ve met the most incredible girl…

You don’t really know her, but you’re pretty sure she’s a Goddess… sent straight from Heaven… in jeans.

You exchanged glances in Chemistry class, had a few brief conversations after class, and even bumped into her at the mall. (Talk about fate!)

You KNOW you want her. There’s no doubt about it. The question now becomes, “Does she want you?”

She smiles at you… but is it a friendly or a flirtatious smile?

You saw her leave with another guy after class… was he her boyfriend?

She flirted with you last week, even touched your shoulder… then completely ignored you the other day.

Does she like you?

How can you tell? You really need to know this before you begin the “pursuit” don’t you?

Perhaps the most common question posed on the SoSuave Discussion Forum concerns “reading women” and trying to figure out whether they like
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