“Can’t we just be friends?”
“I don’t kiss on the first date.”
“I need someone who is more exciting.”
“Did I tell you about my present lover?”
“I think you’re a nice person, but ……””
If you have heard any of these lines, you’re in luck because I have the medicine to cure your case of Confusion-itis. You are privileged to be reading the only romantic love column in America that comes from a male perspective.
The Reality Factor (“Things are the way they are. If you go against reality, reality works against you, resulting in pain.”) and The Bottom Line Factor (“Only a woman’s actions truly reflect her feelings toward you.”). These two facts of life form the foundation of my unique approach to relationships, which I call The “System.”
This week, I will give you the framework of The