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First Date Safety: Finally Made It Past The Inbox? Top Ten Rules To Plan The First Date SAFELY & Possible Scenarios…

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So, you’re ready to sweep your perfect match off their feet on your first date? Make sure you grab your wits and common-sense on your way out the door, to make sure your first date goes off as expected AND also safely:

Meet in public
Making a three-course candle-lit gourmet meal from scratch at your home might sound romantic and score you a few brownie points, but it’s better to have an audience the first time you meet and it could sound a bit risky. Arrange your first date in a public place. You can do the candle-lit dinner on a later date.

Keep it short and sweet
Rather opt for doing something that is quick and requires less commitment – for example, a drink or cup of coffee. That way if you find the spark just isn’t there in person, you can bow out gracefully. And, if you hit it off, you can always extend your first date from a ‘quickie’ to a dinner or a movie. No leng
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10 Things NOT to do on a First Date

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There’s a lot of advice floating around the web when it comes to dating—what to wear, what to eat, what to talk about, what to never, ever write on an online profile—and while most of this info is actually pretty useful, the fact remains that the best first dates are the ones where you’re able to be yourself.

Still, we can all agree that there are certain things that just shouldn’t be done, or spoken about on a first date—by a woman or a man.

DON’T be wishy-washy.
Nobody—and we mean nobody—likes a pushover, so if your date tells you he’s planned dinner at a sushi joint and you don’t eat fish, or he wants to hang at a cocktail lounge but you don’t drink, speak up. It’ll only look weird if you tell him all that after you’re already seated and waiting to order. Same goes for being decisive: If he asks what you’d like to eat, drink, or share for dessert, don’t say “I don’t care, whatever is fine.
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The A-Z of Dating – Z is for Zen

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Zen is a strand of the Mahayan Buddhism religion, introduced by the Chinese into Japan in the 12th century. It’s associated with meditation and intuition rather than organised worship, and its aim for the practitioner is to achieve a state of enlightenment through meditation and chanting.

In popular culture, Zen has become a byword for calm, order, self-discipline and detachment. There’s also a certain air of mystery and the exotic surrounding it. So what does it have to do with dating?

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Finding a partner in life, in the short or long term, can be a stressful business. Things don’t always go according to plan and we can sometimes end up feeling rejected and disappointed. Some people also get
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The A-Z of Dating – G is for Generosity

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We’re not necessarily talking about money here, but rather, generosity of spirit – the ability to give intangible things such as time, positive thoughts and the benefit of the doubt.

That includes understanding if someone is nervous on a first date or not writing them off straight away just because they have a soup stain on their tie or their perfume is overpowering.

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This doesn’t mean going on a second ‘sympathy date’ just because you feel sorry for them – if you don’t fancy someone, you don’t fancy them.

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What to do on your first date, that big “D” night

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Planning the first date
Thinking about your first date can become a bit overwhelming. Try to relax! Dinner and drinks may feel a little like a job interview, so why not visit an exhibition, go to a market, or take a stroll together on your first date? It takes the pressure off, gives you something to talk about, and if sparks don’t fly, at least you’ll have had a fun day out.

First date conversation
Think of five open-ended questions to ask your date; some based on their profile and a couple on current events. If the conversation dries up, use them.

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On the day
Try to arrive on time. Make an effort to get to know your date. Unless it’s an emergency – or you’ve faked one because the date is going
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Dating on a Budget Without Looking Cheap

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Just because your funds may be a little limited, doesn’t mean you can’t have a social life. After all, how can you find the girl of your dreams when you’re stuck in the house? A five-star dining experience and drinks may not be something that you can afford right now. However, with a little planning and creativity, you can create a date night that will exceed your date’s expectations.

Find out What Your Date’s Interests Are

To really pull off a date without looking cheap, you must plan accordingly. Find out what your date likes to do in his or her spare time. Information on hobbies or passions in life can easily be found out during conversations. Use this information to plan a date accordingly.

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Does she enjoy reading good books? If so, plan your date around spending the majority of your time in a unique, quaint book shop
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How to Approach the Perfect Girl – Step by Step Guide to get a First Date

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Imagine you are taking a walk in the city.

The sun is shining. It’s a beautiful day. Or let’s say that it could be a beautiful day if you wouldn’t see so many beautiful women. It’s pure torture. You see one stunning girl after another and they all walk around in short dresses.

You would give everything to talk to one of these girls, to make her smile, and to take her out on a date.

But you are too afraid.

You can’t even remember the last time you approached a woman. Just the idea of approaching a woman makes you want to throw up. You don’t know how to stand, what to say, or when to ask her for her number. If you only knew these things, you would be way more confident.

Don’t you think it’s time to learn the steps of the perfect approach?

It is and the following infographic at the bottom about conversation techniques reveals each and every step which I will go through one at a time, because I want to
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How to Improve Your SEO SEM Using Social Median Platforms

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Social media is usually fun but SEO can be boring. So how about using your social media to boost your Dating Site’s SEO/SEM? Sounds interesting, does it not? There are many ways you can actually use your social media online presence to benefit your dating sites search rankings.

This article will be serving as a guide on how you can use your strong social media existence and get noticed more often in the search results.

How to Customize Dating Site Build Links

Google has always given importance to link building. Previously it just used to be links with no importance given on the quality. This made life easier for a lot of marketers since they started stuffing their content with links of lesser quality. Google was quick to change its algorithm and now gives more importance to quality links.

Links on almost every major social media platform is considered quality. This is because social sites have hi
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Dating Site Tips

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Did You Know?

We want to hear from you… What do you think of our new site design and functionality? Are you having problems with any parts of the site? Do you have suggestions for new functionality, or more questions you’d like to see in the profiles? Do you have a Match success story to share? Whatever’s on your mind, if it relates to online dating, we’d love you to tell us about it.

– That you can find people in our database in a number of different ways? Visit the ‘Find People’ section to read the details and choose the method best suited to your needs.
 

– That our ‘Help’ section contains a detailed FAQ? Check it out for ans
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Dating Opening Lines

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What is a good or rather, successful Opening Line or statement?

When it’s time to contact someone for the first time, what’s the best approach?

It’s all a question of style: your style. Some people opt for an enigmatic “Hello, how are you” and leave it at that, whilst some choose to rewrite the collected works of Shakespeare and include a complete medical history as well.

Our advice is to find a happy medium in between. If you’re hoping for a reply, which we assume is the idea as that’s what it’s all about, we suggest a paragraph or two with something about you and possibly some reference to their profile. Invite a reply by asking an appropriate question or two.

Avoid the negative or testing approach: “We’re not a match because….”. If that’s the case, well then why are you bothering to contact me?

Put your best foot forw
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