Can you remember the last time a woman criticized you for something – or at any time for that matter?
How did it make you feel?
And perhaps more importantly, how did you find yourself reacting to the situation?
Did you become upset, insecure, and defensive and argumentative; then start trying to refute her criticism by denying, explaining, excusing or justifying yourself, your choices or your behavior, all in hopes of proving her wrong?
But have you ever stopped to consider what kind of an undesirable situation taking this approach puts you in?
Have you considered that by protesting and refuting a woman’s criticism, it places you in a position where you’re now answering to her, and now it’s completely up to her whether or not she accepts your counter-argument?
But who has the power here?
Is it you – or is it the woman?
In truth, are you now not nothing but a worm squirming on her hook?
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