Want to find a man who treats you right? Well, start letting him do more of the work.
All too often, I see friends continually devastated by their dating experiences. It is heartbreaking to see them make the same mistakes over and over again. I see women who continually find men who, for whatever reason, never step up to treat them the way they deserve.
I realized that it had very little to do with the men, but more to do with how the women approached dating. They were too emotionally entrenched in the experience and could not see how they were creating some of the dynamics.
I myself was a victim of this until I recognized my part in this process and then I began dating and eventually married a man who treats me the way I deserve. I have identified the following rules to change the approach:
1. Get off the pity train.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Let go of the self defeating thoughts holding you back.
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