One of the most confusing and controversial dating topics for women is how to know when, in the relationship, to start having sex. Of course, there is no one “sex”. There are hugs, there are kisses, there’s making out, and then there’s the whole spectrum of sex. There’s usually a progression of things that happen, sometimes in this order:
Hugging
Kissing
Passionate, tongue-in-mouth making out
Feeling up and all around
Breast play
Oral sex
Anal sex
The big enchilada–intercourse
So when do you let what occur? There used to be rules about this sort of thing, but then the 60’s and 70’s changed everything for most people and now there’s not a lot of structure. And believe it or not, people do crave structure. So here are some guidelines.
First of all, it should go without saying that if you don’t like the guy, don’t do anything with him! A surp
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